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cancelling landline

July 21st, 2010

I’ve had landline phone service all my life.  I’ve had cell phones for a long time, and Vonage for about 6 years.  Even with Vonage and cell pones, I’d never brought myself to get rid of the landline.  Rationalizing it was not too hard – we occasionally get power outages as well as internet outages, so having a stable line would be at least moderately useful for these minor occasions.  However, the monthly bill got landline service seemed to go up continually each month, regardless of how little we used it each month.

A few months ago the bill started going over $50/month, and this is for *nearly* no bells and whistles – no voicemail, no ‘warranty’ on the line.  Wait, I tell a lie – we had an ‘international calling plan’ package, so that when we called my wife’s family overseas it would only cost 10 cents per minute instead of $1.25 (approx).  That said, we still rarely used the thing.  The base rate was a bit over $30/month, and taxes/fees – even if we made no calls at all, added another $16/month – > 50% tax/fee rate, basically.  So keeping a solid phone connection to the house was $46/month before *using* the stupid thing.

A few years back the taxes seemed lower – I would swear total fees before making any calls was below $40 back in 2006.  I may fish out an old bill and compare if I can find one.  In any event, when bills for minimal usage started creeping over $50, I’d had enough.  We already have a Vonage line, so I looked to port over the existing number (which many of my wife’s customers have used for years) to our Vonage box, and – great! – it was possible. The process took almost two weeks, and the service was working before we were actually notified by email that it was working, but it was fairly seamless all in all.

So, now I’ve come kicking and screaming in to the ‘no land line’ age, and it feels a bit odd.  What was funny, though, is when I called to cancel service.  The *2nd* option on the provider’s phone tree was ‘If you’re calling to cancel your service, press 2′.  *2*!  They must be losing customers right and left.  While I’m paying some taxes via Vonage, I suspect it’s only a few years before we start seeing punishing taxes applied to VOIP systems to make up for lost revenue from land lines.  If the govt was recouping $192/year from me via landlines, and might only be collecting half that from Vonage tax collection.

Scratch that – nope.  They’re still collecting around $16/month from me in taxes already.  My minimum monthly Vonage bill is now $42.94.  Hrmm…. So… I’ve sort of traded one price point for another.  And actually, there’s another $5 on top of that because we have an incoming virtual number from the UK.  So… $47.93 minimum.  About the same as the CenturyLink line we had before.  So why cancel?

Vonage is giving us much more.  Unlimited calling, which many US-based VOIP providers also offer, but *every single ad* I hear/see from TWC, CenturyLink, etc – all focused on ‘unlimited calling in the US!’.  I couldn’t care less, as half my family is overseas – UK and Australia – as are many of my wife’s customers.  Vonage gives free calling to Australia and most of Europe in that $24.99.  We pay $5 month for a UK line which rings in to us for that flat $5, and allows most of her UK customers to call for the price of a local call in the UK.  Voicemail calls transcribed and sent to email for free.  And… a web interface to manage it all.  CenturyLink and other traditional landline monopolies have a long way to go to catch up to the value provided by Vonage.  If we got a Vonage program *just* for the amount of calls we make in the US, and didn’t have international needs, we’d at least $20 off that $47, so, we’d probably be paying $25/month.  And the ability to physically take the phone number (via the physical box) with you around wherever you travel is pretty nice (though I’ve only done it once).

Before Vonage, even using landline ‘calling plans’ to get international calls down to a few cents per minute, our bills were easily over $100/month, sometimes $150.  Now with Vonage, two lines, a third incoming number, and *more* calling than we used to do, $55/month is about average.  *Huge* savings, and more convenience.  Can’t ask for much more, can you?

That’s my rant.  Glad I did those numbers.  It wasn’t specifically the $50/month that was necessarily upsetting, but given how little value we were getting for that $50, that was the breaking point.

Christmas alone (mostly)

December 24th, 2008

This Christmas is a little strange. My wife left me… to visit family in Australia, so I’m on my own. I don’t have any family around, so my prospects were going to be pretty solitary. I ended up making the decision to drive down to Florida to visit with my grandparents for a couple days. It’ll make a nice change of pace, but a heck of a drive (9+ hours). The majority of the day will be spent in the car, probably making some phone calls to family that’s spread around (michigan, kentucky, new york, california, new mexico). That might eat up a couple hours of the drive at least :)

I’m just getting a bit reflective here. This is the first holiday season I’ve been sort of ‘naturally’ on my own for many years. I’m having to make a big effort to go visit family this year. Not complaining, just realizing that it’s like this for some people all the time, and I’m a bit more grateful for how my ‘regular’ life is these days (outside of this holiday season!)

Line-item tipping

December 16th, 2008

Was talking with my brother today and got on the subject of tipping (apparently it was on NPR today). We discussed the lousy experience we sometimes get, and there’s no way to indicate that in any way that anyone will notice. I’d like to suggest restaurants start “line-item tipping”.

When you come to leave a gratuity, you’d be presented with 3 lines:

_______ service

_______ food

_______ cleanliness (or ambiance, or something like that)

This would *easily* allow you to let the entire restaurant know – immediately – whether the food was good, the service was good, and the place was clean. Yeah, those stupid little survey cards are at some places, but I never trust they do anything with them.

If I get lousy food, but the server is still good, I’m tempted to leave the server a bad tip as a way of ‘sending a message’ but ultimately it’s really only hurting the server. Never going back to that restaurant is an option, but likely will hurt everyone.

The line-item gratuity would go a long way towards identifying the good parts of a restaurant on a real-time basis.

What do you think?

Apples are too expensive?

February 14th, 2008

So Keith Elder has finally switched back to the “Apple is expensive” party line.  Keith and I had numerous “debates” about this topic years ago, and he was *always* quoting the Apple fan line that “spec for spec” Apples are not just competitive with regular PCs but *cheaper*.

I know Keith knows he believed it back in the day, so I’m not pointing out any glaring inconsistencies.  It’s just somewhat bemusing to watch someone’s progression in and then out of Apple fandom.  In the non-Apple hardware world, there’s considerable choice – you can go barebones cheap or top-end best-of-breed hardware.  Sometimes Apple might be more expensive, sometimes less, when comparing against top-end stuff, but it all depends on your needs.  Trouble has been, Apple doesn’t make machines to cover *everyone’s* needs; at least, not when you factor in budget as part of the need.

I’ve got no real horse in this race.  I write this as someone who has 2 Macs (emac from 2003 – or was it 2002? -  and Imac from 2006).  We’ve also got 2 ipods – one broke after 2 years and one is still working.  But I’ve also got an Compaq laptop running Linux and XP (via vmware).  I’ve considered a Macbook Pro (used) as a new laptop for later this year, but have no firm plans.

I also write this as someone who has a wife who Keith talked in to getting the emac in the first place.  I even remember after we got it, it was dog slow (1ghz with 512 megs of RAM).  Keith (and others) countered with “duh!  512 megs is nothing – you have to have at least a gig to run anything fast”.  To which I generally replied “Why does Apple have a reputation of providing great end-user experiences but still sell systems that are ‘known’ to be painful to use?”. I would say that’s less and less the case these days, but it wasn’t easy, for me, to love an emac in 2003.

I’ve always maintained that Apple systems are generally more expensive than comparable non-Apple systems.  And if you *don’t* use all the extras that you get with OSX – if you’re not using GarageBand and iLife and Pages and all that other OSX goodness, by all means Apple systems are way overpriced.  It’s very hard to put a dollar value on ‘creature of habit’ behaviour, but if you really don’t use the Apple stuff, go buy a non-Apple system.  OR get the latest Apple stuff, put Parallels on it, install Windows, and run both systems.  You’ll pay for it – that’s a pricey proposition for the home user – but you’ll arguably have the best of both worlds for many use cases (except perhaps gaming).

Glad to have you back Keith.  Maybe you’ll go full circle and start running Linux as a primary desktop in a few more years.  :)

10 year anniversary

February 13th, 2008

Tomorrow, Feb 14, is my 10th anniversary.  I’ve been married to my great wife Lesley for 10 years.  Today is really the last day of the 10th years we’ve been married – tomorrow starts year 11!  I’ve never done*anything* for 10 years except be alive. Never lived at any one address for 10 years – well, not as an adult anyway.  Never worked at one company for 10 years.  But I’ve been married for 10 years.  Wow.

We’ve had lots of ups and downs during that time frame, as many of you who know us personally can attest to. She’s been fabulous throughout all the ordeals we’ve faced, and I look forward to the next 10 years with even more excitement.

UPDATE:  I was trying to come up with a “countdown” from 10, but I can’t do the whole thing.  However from 6, we’ve had 6 jobs, 5 cars, 4 houses, 3 states we lived in, 2 cats and 1 marriage.  :)

What a way to spend christmas

December 25th, 2007

Been mostly sick as a dog since Friday.  I think the jetlag kicked in, and I probably picked up something on the plane, or in the office Friday, cause from Friday night on, I’ve been very sick.  Saturday morning I was weaker than the writing in an in-flight magazine.  Sunday got a bit better, then Monday was bad again.  Today was so-so, though my throat is starting to really hurt, and my cough hasn’t really gone away at all.  Sleep has been crazy – not much more than 4 hours in a row since Thursday night, constantly waking up.  Hopefully I’ll be better tomorrow – got a lot of work to catch up on.  I can do some from home if need be, but I’d rather be face to face to do as much as possible.  Ugh…  :(

On the upside, got some really nice gifts from family members.  On the whole, there were a lot of gift certificates, but I don’t mind.  In some sense I prefer that, because I don’t often *want* things so much as *need* them throughout the year.  Sometimes there’s a *want* in there as well, but in either case, my wants/needs change over time, and I’d rather be able to make a more thought out decision, and having family members’ help in those times is great.  My brother Mark did get me a subscription to strategy+business magazine, which looks great so far.

Dollhouse miniature holiday shopping

November 19th, 2007

OK, not really ‘tech’ related at all, but I’ve just finished making some updates to my wife’s dollhouse miniature food site.  She’s got some new items available in time for all your dollhouse miniature holiday shopping needs (admit it, you have those needs!)  Have a look and buy that set of luxury chocolate truffles you know your special someone is just over the moon for.  He/she will love you for it :)

For what it’s worth, on the ‘showcase’ page I used iCarousel component which works with mootools.  There was an extra step I had to take to make things work with more than just pictures.  If you’re interested in the technique, let me know.  I may post about it here in more detail when I get the chance as well.

Dollhouse miniature show – rent tables and more

November 5th, 2007

As some of you know, my wife makes dollhouse miniature food.  She is, quite simply, one of the best in the world.  We attended the Philadelphia Miniaturia show this past weekend where she exhibited.   We had a great time catching up with some old friends and making some new ones, as usual.  I didn’t get a chance to visit too many other dealers’ tables, but the guy next to us, Michael Walton, is a furniture maker from Chicago (originally from Ireland).  He does full scale furniture making and antique furniture restoration, but also does dollhouse miniature furniture.  So far, so good.  There are other people who do furniture, just like there are others that do food – few people are successful in a field without competition.  What really caught my eye was one piece in particular: an Irish Rent Table.

He didn’t have a real one with him, unfortunately, but the pictures and story alone were interesting enough.  From his site:

The Drum top revolves on the pedestal to allow the landlord locate the relevant tenants paperwork. The fan inlaid secret compartment in the top rises to allow the “Rent” money to be inserted and held securely in the bottom drawer of the pedestal base.

So, English landlords had their tenants put rent in this little pop-up holder that would rotate around and put the rent in each tenant’s secured lockbox.  Pretty nifty.  To know Michael’s built one of these in 1″ miniature scale – that actually works – is just mind blowing.

I’ve been in the miniature world (via my wife) for over 10 years now.  I’m normally not that impressed with the work of other dealers at these shows.  It’s not that it’s bad – on the contrary, these shows are often filled with world-class craftsmen.  It’s just that most of the items tend to be the same sorts of things, and that’s because most people building dollhouse scale scenes are building the same sorts of things (bedroom scenes, Victorian libraries, etc.)  I didn’t even know what a rent table was when I got there, and I both learned something new and was genuinely impressed by a fellow stallholder this year.

This shouldn’t be construed that simply because I’ve not written about other dealers that I’m not impressed with their work.  It’s just that this is the first time I’ve decided to write about it.  There’s also precious little out there on the web about rent tables, so if this helps people find out about rent tables, all the better.  Michael was telling me he is available to build a full-scale one should anyone wish to commission him to do so.  So there you go – if you’re looking for a world-class replica Irish Rent Table, contact Michael Walton.

Congrats to Mark

June 20th, 2007

My brother Mark recently got his ESL teaching degree.  Just wanted to throw out a public ‘congratulations’ to him.

Newest American citizen

August 3rd, 2006

My wife Lesley became a US citizen today.  I was so proud, yet stupidly forgot to take a camera.  I turned on my camera phone for a moment, but you’re not supposed to have cell phones on in fed buildings(?).  I got one small snap, but it’s horrible.  The chap next to me said he’d take a picture, but his battery ran out right as he snapped her pic, so we didn’t get it.  :(

So, now she’s completely legal and can’t be deported!  However, we’ve got a new semi-issue on, and that’s the passport.  She had to turn in her greencard, and also ship off her only original naturalization paper to get a passport.  So until that’s returned (expedited service – 2 weeks hopefully) she’s got no real papers (we made a photocopy but it’s not the original!), so it’s a little strange.

The officiator was a rather nice guy, but was publicly anti-Bush.  He made a few comments about ‘the president’ and would roll his eyes, or made some type of somewhat sarcastic face when he said it – it bothered me some.  Probably bothered the 4 servicemen there too, but no one said anything.  By the way, I didn’t know one could be in our armed forces and not be a citizen – I would have thought that would be a requirement.  Did this change at some point???

I recorded the ceremony on my iriver, but there were so many loud kids around me (4-6 years old it seemed) that I’m not sure much is really audible of the speaker’s comments.  Side note – there really should be a blanket rule against having kids in functions like that.  If they’re asleep, or well-behaved, perhaps make case-by-case exceptions, but the moment they misbehave, they should have been kicked out – it ruined it for the other 100+ people in the room there for a once-in-a-lifetime ceremony.  There was one chap who was good with his daughter – she was probably 9 months old and would cry/make noises some.  When it started to get bad, he simply took her out of the room.   I publicly thank this man – from India, if I heard him correctly – for people a responsibly polite person.